Mediators, Denial and Pride...Oh my!

SO, I decided to give it ONE LAST ATTEMPT.

I spoke to Mr. Harris regarding the use of a mediator to make the child support, spousal support and child custody case go smoother. I told him he could choose the mediator, I'd pay for it.

This man is sooooooo mad that I have moved on with my life that he can't even see when I am doing him a favor. All he can focus on is not paying spousal support. I said, Ok fine. It seems even that he doesn't care about. He just is infuriated that I didn't take him back.

He told me that I could of made this work by showing him that I wanted him.

*Insert awkward long pause*

Is he serious?

I'm sorry that I didn't want a man that I had to kick out of my house because he was caught cheating AGAIN in Oct. October 18th 2011 to be exact. I sat there like a fool thinking he wasnt cheating and found out the truth on March 18th, 2012 that in fact, he had spent the last 3 years cheating with a woman whom once I found out about he in July 2009, I actually forgave him for!!!!

So sorry that I didn't want trash in my front yard.

He is SO infuriated that I am happy that he is letting Pride consume him.

It makes my life easier. I tried to do something to help our whole family. I tried to use the mediator to make this transition smooth as eggs BUT, nooooo. He lets his pride get in the way.

God will show him the way. One day.

I realize that I should of known better. I wanted to kick myself because truthfully, I know exactly what type of monster I am dealing with but, I believe I had a moment of DENIAL.

I led myself to believe that this man may have changed now that he is in this new, " beautiful" relationship. Apparently, (and these are his words, not mine) HE IS NOT HAPPY WITH OLABISI CUMMINGS. A part of me feels bad for him but, the other side of me is laughing because if he had stayed true to me, he wouldnt be in a false relationship with her. I kicked him out of my life and he felt that he had to go pretend elsewhere. It didn't take long for the texts filled with "I miss you" and the "I will forever be yours" started flowing in.

I can't even be flattered.

I guess the moral in this story is: If you love someone, show them. If they hurt you, tell them. If you want them, lay the love on them so thick that they KNOW they are wanted.

And if you don't....

Well,

BE PREPARED TO LOSE THEM (possibly forever).

Hugs and Kisses,

Ms. Bliss.